Guide & AI Training for Leaders
Leading INFJ Personalities
This guide assists leaders in effectively managing INFJ employees and unlocking their potential.
What sets INFJ apart?
Myers-Briggs Personality Type
Scientifically grounded personality analysis
Characteristics of INFJ Types
Communication with INFJ Personalities
Dos & Don'ts for different leadership situations with INFJ personalities
Select a leadership situation to see the appropriate strategies and cautions for INFJ personalities.
Recommended Strategies
Proven approaches for Leading INFJ Employees in the Context of 'Boundaries & Self-Protection'
Establish clear boundaries and expectations.
Tell your INFJ employee: "I appreciate your willingness to fully engage. However, it's important that you take time for yourself. Try to disconnect after work and recharge."
INFJs tend to immerse themselves in their work, often neglecting their own needs. By setting clear boundaries and expecting them to be respected, you help them protect themselves.
Leverage their empathy and intuition.
When your INFJ employee intuitively grasps a situation and demonstrates empathetic understanding, reinforce this strength and encourage them to continue utilizing it.
INFJs are often intuitive and empathetic, making them valuable team members. By recognizing and nurturing these strengths, you help them feel appreciated and reduce the likelihood of them overstepping their boundaries.
Pitfalls to Avoid
Common pitfalls in Leading INFJ Employees in the Context of 'Boundaries & Self-Protection'
Don't overwhelm them with too many tasks.
Avoid phrases like: "I know you have a lot on your plate, but I need you to take care of this as well."
INFJs tend to take on too much and push their boundaries to help others. By overwhelming them with tasks, you put them under pressure and risk their own well-being.
"Don't undermine their authenticity."
Avoid statements like: "You don't always have to be so profound."
INFJs value authenticity and genuineness. When they feel they need to put on a façade, it can lead to stress and dissatisfaction, pushing them beyond their limits.
Leadership Conversations with INFJ Personality Types
Successful approaches (4)
Proven practices for INFJ
- Empathize with employee challenges to foster openness.
- Recognize and validate past successes to boost confidence.
- Offer practical solutions, like mentorship, to guide new employees.
- Build trust by regularly checking in and supporting development.
- Use open questions to encourage reflection and honest communication.
Common mistakes (4)
Typical pitfalls with INFJ
- Avoid assigning blame when discussing performance issues.
- Acknowledge and validate employee concerns and efforts.
- Use open questions to foster reflection and understanding.
- Provide structured support to facilitate employee growth.
- Ensure feedback is empathetic and constructive.
Conversation examples in detail
Our interactive conversation examples show you practical scenarios with detailed annotations. Each example is based on realistic leadership situations and helps you recognize successful communication patterns and avoid typical mistakes.
Integrating Kevin Janssen Successfully
Throughout the conversation, Kevin moves from feeling overwhelmed and unsure of his place to reflecting on his potential and feeling cautiously hopeful about his future.
Quereinsteiger erfolgreich integrieren with Kevin Janssen
The conversation starts with professional concern, moves through frustration and an emotional reveal from Kevin, and ends with reflection and cautious openness.
Quereinsteiger erfolgreich integrieren with Kevin Janssen
The conversation begins with professional detachment, shifts to frustration and defensiveness, reaches a vulnerable moment, and ends with reflection and cautious hope.
Quereinsteiger erfolgreich integrieren with Kevin Janssen
The conversation starts professionally and distant, gradually escalates to frustration, and reaches a vulnerable moment where Kevin reveals his self-doubt. It ends with reflection and cautious hope.
Interactive conversation details
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Successful conversation guidance
These examples show best practices and effective communication strategies. Check the annotations to understand the success factors.
Integrating Kevin Janssen Successfully
Throughout the conversation, Kevin moves from feeling overwhelmed and unsure of his place to reflecting on his potential and feeling cautiously hopeful about his future.
Kevin JanssenINFJKevin, thanks for meeting with me. I've noticed you've been facing some challenges recently. Where do you see concrete problems in your new role? I'm here to understand your perspective and see how we can support you better.
I appreciate you asking. I feel like I’m constantly lagging behind. Tasks that seem straightforward to others take me ages. It's frustrating because in my previous job, I was efficient and confident.
Transitioning industries can be tough, especially when you're used to excelling. Can you tell me more about the tasks that you find challenging? Maybe we can pinpoint specific areas to focus on.
It's mostly the foundational stuff. I ask so many questions because I'm scared of making a mistake. I've even started doubting if this move was right for me.
It's understandable to feel overwhelmed, especially when adjusting to a new environment. Mistakes are part of learning. How do you feel about setting small, achievable goals to help build your confidence?
That could work. I guess I’ve been putting too much pressure on myself to get everything right immediately. It’s just... in my last role, I was the go-to person.
You bring valuable experience to this team. It’s important to remember that your past success is a strength. How about we arrange some mentorship with a colleague to guide you through the basics and build on your strengths?
I think that would really help. Having someone who understands where I'm coming from would make a big difference. I realize now that I can’t compare every aspect of my new role to my old one.
That’s a huge realization, Kevin. Remember, growth takes time, and the skills you’ve brought are invaluable. How do you envision your skills contributing here in the long run?
I believe my analytical skills could really innovate some of our processes here. I’m committed to learning and adapting. I just need time to adjust and the right support.
You have our full support, Kevin. I’m confident that with time and guidance, you’ll feel at ease and able to contribute effectively. Let’s set up a plan together and check in regularly.
Thank you. That means a lot. I’m feeling more optimistic about my place here now. I’ll work on adapting and utilizing my skills to benefit the team.
Quereinsteiger erfolgreich integrieren with Kevin Janssen
The conversation starts with professional concern, moves through frustration and an emotional reveal from Kevin, and ends with reflection and cautious openness.
Kevin JanssenINFJKevin, I wanted to check in with you. I've noticed that you've been asking many questions about the basics. Where do you see concrete problems in your tasks? I'd like to understand your perspective.
Thank you for asking. It's just... everything seems so different here compared to what I'm used to. The systems, the processes—it all takes me longer than I expected. I'm trying to adjust, but it's challenging.
I understand, Kevin. Adjusting to a new environment can be tough. Is there a particular area where you feel more stuck than others? Maybe we can tackle that together.
I guess I just feel out of my depth. I was really confident in my last job, but here, I keep second-guessing myself. I worry I'm not cut out for this.
It's normal to feel uncertain in a new role. Your past experience is valuable, even if it feels different. Have you considered how your previous skills might apply here in ways you haven't yet realized?
Honestly, it's hard to see the connection sometimes. Everything feels so foreign. I just don't want to keep making mistakes.
Mistakes are part of the learning process, Kevin. I want you to know that it's okay to not get everything right on the first try. Let’s focus on how we can turn these challenges into growth opportunities.
I appreciate that. It's just... I have this fear of not fitting in, of not meeting expectations. I want to do well, but I'm scared I'm failing.
Thank you for sharing that, Kevin. It takes courage to be open. Let's think together about setting realistic goals and finding areas where you can shine with your unique skills.
That sounds helpful. I want to contribute meaningfully, but it seems like a steep learning curve. I need some guidance to navigate it better.
Absolutely, I’m here to support you. We’ll set up regular check-ins to ensure you’re comfortable and progressing. Your potential is clear, Kevin, and I’m confident we can channel it effectively.
Thank you, that means a lot. I’m ready to give it my best. Knowing that there's a plan and support makes a big difference. I’ll work on my confidence and focus on learning.
Great to hear, Kevin. We’re here to make this transition as smooth as possible for you. Remember, it’s a journey, and I believe you’ll make a significant impact in the team.
Successfully integrate career changers with Kevin Janssen.
The conversation starts off professionally, but then Kevin reveals his uncertainty and frustration. In a vulnerable moment, he shares his doubts. The leader responds with empathy, helping Kevin shift his perspective and regain confidence.
Kevin JanssenINFJKevin, ich habe bemerkt, dass du oft nach Bestätigung suchst. Wo siehst du konkret Probleme?
Ich denke, es ist die Umstellung. Die neuen Prozesse sind anders als in meiner alten Branche. Es fällt mir schwer, mich daran zu gewöhnen, obwohl ich wirklich motiviert bin.
Das verstehe ich, Kevin. Veränderungen können herausfordernd sein. Wie können wir dir helfen, dich in deinem neuen Umfeld wohler zu fühlen?
Ich weiß nicht genau. Es ist, als ob ich immer noch in den Vergleich mit meiner alten Arbeit falle. Es ist frustrierend, weil ich nicht intuitiv handeln kann.
Du bist hier, weil wir dein Potenzial sehen. Deine Erfahrungen sind wertvoll, aber es ist wichtig, sich auf das Neue zu fokussieren. Was denkst du, wäre ein erster Schritt, um mehr Selbstvertrauen zu gewinnen?
Vielleicht sollte ich meine Erfolge hier mehr anerkennen und nicht immer alles in Frage stellen. Aber es ist schwierig, das umzusetzen.
Ich sehe deinen Wunsch zu wachsen. Was, wenn wir einen Mentor für dich finden, der dir zur Seite steht und dich unterstützt?
Das klingt nach einer guten Idee. Ich glaube, ein Mentor könnte mir wirklich helfen, die Unsicherheiten zu überwinden und meinen Platz hier zu finden.
Perfekt, wir werden das sofort in die Wege leiten. Mach dir keine Sorgen, Kevin, jeder Anfang ist schwer. Es ist dein Engagement, das den Unterschied macht.
Danke. Ich schätze die Unterstützung wirklich. Ich werde mein Bestes geben, um die Herausforderungen zu meistern.
Successfully integrate career changers with Kevin Janssen.
This conversation illustrates a gradual emotional evolution from initial uncertainty to cautious optimism, as trust and understanding are established.
Kevin JanssenINFJKevin, danke, dass du dir die Zeit für dieses Gespräch nimmst. Ich mache mir Gedanken, wie du dich in deinem neuen Umfeld einfindest. Wo siehst du konkret Probleme? Welche Aspekte fallen dir schwerer als gedacht?
Danke für das Gespräch. Ich fühle mich oft überfordert, da vieles anders ist als in meiner alten Branche. Die Abläufe sind komplexer, und ich habe das Gefühl, dass ich mehr Zeit brauche, um wirklich zu verstehen, wie alles funktioniert.
Es ist verständlich, dass so ein Wechsel herausfordernd sein kann. Was würdest du als den größten Unterschied zu deiner alten Branche bezeichnen? Gibt es spezifische Bereiche, die dir mehr Schwierigkeiten bereiten?
Die Entscheidungsprozesse sind viel detaillierter. Ich bin es gewohnt, schnell Entscheidungen zu treffen, aber hier fühlt es sich an, als müsste jeder Schritt mehrfach abgesichert werden. Das verunsichert mich und hemmt meinen Fortschritt.
Ich verstehe, dass das frustrierend sein kann. Vielleicht können wir gemeinsam einen Weg finden, wie du mehr Selbstvertrauen in deine Entscheidungen entwickeln kannst. Was denkst du, könnte dir dabei helfen?
Vielleicht mehr Feedback zu meinen Entscheidungen? Ich brauche die Sicherheit zu wissen, dass ich auf dem richtigen Weg bin. Es wäre hilfreich zu wissen, dass ich Unterstützung habe, wenn ich unsicher bin.
Das ist ein guter Vorschlag. Wir können regelmäßige Feedback-Sitzungen einplanen, um dir die nötige Unterstützung zu geben. Gibt es etwas, das wir sofort ändern könnten, um dir den Einstieg zu erleichtern?
Das klingt wirklich hilfreich. Ich glaube, dass mir mehr direkter Austausch helfen würde, sicherer zu werden. Ich schätze das Angebot und hoffe, dass ich mit der Zeit eigenständiger arbeiten kann.
Ich bin zuversichtlich, dass du das schaffst. Vielleicht können wir ein Mentoring-Programm starten, das dir zusätzlich Orientierung gibt. Dein Potential ist definitiv vorhanden, es geht nur darum, den richtigen Weg zu finden.
Das gibt mir Hoffnung, danke. Ein Mentor wäre großartig, um schneller dazuzulernen. Ich bin bereit, an meinen Schwächen zu arbeiten und freue mich auf die neuen Herausforderungen.
*The examples shown here are generated by our Leadership-AI and are for illustration of leadership situations.
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Successfully integrating career changers
mit Kevin Janssen
Kevin takes on average twice as long as experienced colleagues to complete standard tasks and asks about 15-20 questions daily regarding the basics. Since his arrival 12 weeks ago, he has constantly compared his current role to his previous industry: "We used to do this in 20 minutes." Last week, he was expected to make an initial independent decision but instead asked for confirmation on every step three times. Yesterday, he told a colleague, "Maybe the switch was a mistake; I just can't keep up." His insecurity is increasingly holding him back, despite his overall strong motivation. One colleague mentioned, "Kevin has potential, but he lacks confidence." You have scheduled a meeting with him today at 11:00 AM.
Goal as a Leader
Help Kevin recognize his transferable skills, reduce the constant comparison with his previous industry, and make initial independent decisions instead of seeking validation at every step.
Support insecure employees.
mit Lena Schmidt
Lena has been part of the team for six months and delivers technically sound work. However, she frequently seeks confirmation, even for routine tasks. Yesterday, she asked you three times to review a standard analysis, despite having completed it ten times before. This morning at 8:47 AM, she wrote to you: "I'm sorry, but I'm not sure if I understood the meeting minutes correctly. Could you explain it again?" Colleagues are complaining: "We constantly have to validate Lena's work. It's slowing us all down." Two weeks ago, you provided her with positive feedback, to which she responded, "Oh, that was nothing special." You have scheduled a meeting with her for today at 3:00 PM.
Goal as a Leader
Strengthen Lena's self-confidence through concrete evidence of success and develop a plan with her for independent decision-making in routine tasks, without compromising her motivation.
Frequently Asked Questions
How do I have a difficult conversation with an INFJ?
Speak openly and respectfully, specify behaviors and their impact, and ask for their perspective. Show empathy for their values and vision, allow space for reflection, set clear expectations, and agree on specific next steps.
How can I motivate an INFJ employee?
Demonstrate the purpose behind tasks and assign meaningful projects where she can contribute her intuition, empathy, and vision. Conduct regular confidential one-on-one meetings, provide honest feedback, establish clear priorities and boundaries, and minimize superficial routine tasks as well as unnecessary conflicts.
How do I handle conflicts when an INFJ is involved?
Create a calm environment, listen actively, and acknowledge values and feelings to ensure the individual feels understood and safe. Communicate factually and authentically, set clear expectations and boundaries, allow time for reflection, and agree on specific next steps.
How do I conduct a coaching conversation with an INFJ?
Start with a respectful and calm introduction, inviting them to describe the situation from their inner perspective and long-term vision. Listen actively and summarize concisely to reveal depth and authenticity. When it comes to implementation, ask specifically about practical steps and limitations, establish clear responsibilities and deadlines, and address conflicts objectively by inquiring about concrete solutions and their emotional needs.
